(A tale about the endless pursuit of stuff)
Have you ever stopped to consider how much of our lives are wasted in our endless pursuit of stuff? This consumer cycle is much bigger than you’d ever think! These consumer purchases, be it a new kitchen, must-have gadget or luxurious holiday, commit us to working longer and longer hours which leave us exhausted, drained of energy with which you could have done something with purpose.
Be it your weekday evenings or traditional weekends, most people choose to recover from work by, you guessed it,’treating’ themselves to more stuff! Having seen it advertised on the tv show you were watching/magazine you had been reading/website you had been browsing/friend you had been visiting, you then spend some more time finding out if this is definitely the stuff you want to buy.
Convinced that we definitely need this stuff we then commit more of our leisure time to purchasing and collecting the stuff you wanted. For some items this may be the swift, addictive ‘1-click’ on a website but for others this could be an all-day investment of their leisure time walking around endless shops in bland shopping malls and uniformed high streets. If you’ve travelled to shop by car then you may even find yourself having to work a little longer that month just to pay for the small slab of concrete you parked on whilst you were out shopping for your stuff!
Beware though, whether it’s on online or in the mall, it’s all too easy to become distracted whilst shopping for stuff. Retail shopping can be like one big confectionary stand that’s sitting temptingly next to the till. It’s the moment you ask yourself ‘What did I come in for?’ (or go online for?), the original purpose having been forgotten as you become distracted by the consumption of even more stuff which you just happened to pick up on your way to purchasing what you had come in for!
Stuff has a nasty habit of not keeping us happy for long and it’s not long before the ‘feel good’ factor of this new stuff wanes, so we begin to spend out time seeking out the next item that you really just have to get.
Now, if you’re really unfortunate ,you may even have to work a little longer to pay for the interest that has accrued on an overdraft/credit card as you didn’t actually have the money to purchase your stuff at the time. If you’re just unfortunate then it’s highly likely that you’ll be working a little bit longer down the line to pay the mortgage which you could have been paid off years earlier had you just owned a little less….you guessed it……STUFF!
LESS STUFF = MORE TIME (and a happier, simpler life).
The debt-free minimalist approach: It’s a fact of life that most people will spend the majority of their week working but do we really need to spend such a significant proportion of our leisure time in the endless pursuit of stuff? Consuming is not living, happiness is not found in the pursuit and accumulation of more and more stuff, it is found in living an active, purposeful, social, creative life. Go out for a walk in the woods/by a lake, draw or write something, spend time with your family, tend to the garden, make something, fix something, learn something new (an instrument/a language), join a community club, become a volunteer, plan an adventure, write a letter to someone you love, follow a passion, get fit, bake a cake….the options for how we spend our leisure time are almost endless. So when you next find yourself about to begin the next consumer cycle, pause for a moment and ask yourself ‘Isn’t there something better that I could be doing with my life?’ because you’ll normally find that actually…there is!